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  • A Question of Leverage: When Perceived Power Reverses the Game

    A Question of Leverage: When Perceived Power Reverses the Game

    In complex negotiations, the dynamics of power are rarely static. They shift—sometimes subtly, sometimes dramatically—as parties use leverage to improve their own position or reassess that of their counterparts. The following case illustrates how a perceived imbalance of power can be strategically challenged—even in the absence of a real alternative. It will show that alternatives need not be fully realized to be influential; they need only be credible enough to unsettle the other party’s assumptions.


    The scene is set within the European operations of a large telecommunications conglomerate, here anonymized as TelCo, whose footprint spans a dozen or more national subsidiaries across the continent. In an effort to harmonize and modernize its infrastructure, TelCo had set out to consolidate its payment services. Rather than maintaining a patchwork of local providers and fragmented processes, the company aimed to centralize these functions under a single integrator capable of managing multi-country operations with consistent standards.

    The natural partner for such a task was a specialized service provider—let us call them PaySys—who, at that time, enjoyed a quasi-monopolistic position in the market segment of cross-border payment service integration. Given TelCo’s strategic priorities and operational constraints, this provider appeared to be the only viable player with the technical capacity, regulatory reach, and operational footprint to meet the company’s requirements. PaySys knew full well that they held a unique position — and entered the negotiations with a confident, even assertive, posture, setting out price points and commercial conditions that, from TelCo’s perspective, bordered on opportunistic. Internally, TelCo’s negotiation team faced a troubling asymmetry in bargaining power. Traditional levers such as competitive pressure or in-house substitution were absent. The classic make-or-buy decision leaned heavily towards “buy,” not because of preference, but due to the sheer complexity and cost associated with building internal integration capabilities from scratch. The service was needed, and only one supplier could deliver it.

    But necessity does not preclude strategy. Whenever structural asymmetries appear fixed, the deliberate shaping of perceived alternatives can restore balance and open the path to more equitable outcomes.

    Rather than accept PaySys’s terms or engage in futile bargaining from a weakened position, TelCo embarked on a path that, while tactically bold, was grounded in a precise reading of power dynamics—not as fixed assets, but as fluid perceptions. The team decided to play for time. Negotiations were decelerated, questions were raised, and while the engagement remained constructive on the surface, the message was unmistakable: TelCo was not ready to sign under these conditions.

    Meanwhile, in parallel—and largely off-stage—TelCo began contacting individual local payment service providers in key European markets. The purpose was not to establish immediate contracts, nor to replace PaySys operationally. Instead, the goal was to project a plausible narrative: that TelCo was actively exploring the option of building its own integration layer by directly managing relationships with multiple vendors. While internally there was little appetite to fully pursue this path, externally, it was designed to serve as a credible signal of an emerging alternative.

    What followed illustrates the delicate balance between bluff and believability in strategic negotiation.

    As local providers began receiving inquiries from TelCo’s procurement and IT teams, word inevitably traveled. Some of these providers, uncertain about the potential implications for their existing partnerships, began reaching out to PaySys to express concern and seek clarification. The message that landed with PaySys was clear: TelCo appeared to be reconsidering its approach, and PaySys might no longer be the sole actor in control.

    Of course, as TelCo began reaching out to individual payment providers, it was a calculated effect that these overtures would not remain confined to one-on-one conversations. In ecosystems where actors are interconnected—whether commercially, operationally, or informally—information tends to diffuse.

    These signals converged into a narrative that triggered a reassessment within PaySys. The once-stable perception of exclusivity was now in question. Though no formal announcements had been made, the aggregate effect of these peripheral signals was to introduce doubt into PaySys’s earlier assumption of exclusivity. And in high-leverage negotiations, such doubt can erode perceived power far more effectively than confrontation. The notion that TelecomCo might actually be constructing a viable BATNA*—however incomplete or imperfect—began to take root. And in negotiation, perception often trumps reality.

    What ensued was a visible shift in posture. PaySys returned to the table with revised pricing and greater flexibility, its earlier assertiveness giving way to a more collaborative tone. The deal was eventually concluded, still within the framework of external service provision, but on significantly more favorable terms than initially anticipated.


    This case illustrates how power in negotiations is often less a matter of objective conditions that of mutual perception. Power is not determined solely by facts—it is shaped, above all, by the perceptions of each party’s alternatives, resolve, and intent. In this case, TelCo did not acquire a better BATNA in absolute terms. What they created, and carefully projected, was the credible appearance of a developing alternative. That perception alone was sufficient to erode the supplier’s confidence in their own position, and to bring about a fundamental shift in the dynamic in TelCo’s favor.

    In high-stakes, low-competition negotiations, where options are scarce and timelines tight, the strategic use of ambiguity—so long as it remains plausible—can become a powerful tool to level the playing field.


    * BATNA = Best Alternative To a Negotiated Agreement, refers to the most advantageous course of action a party can take if negotiations fail and an agreement cannot be reached

  • Game Theory in Negotiation: A Useful Lens — But Not the Whole Picture

    Game Theory in Negotiation: A Useful Lens — But Not the Whole Picture

    Over the past weeks, we’ve explored a range of negotiation “games” — from the Prisoner’s Dilemma to the Battle of the Sexes — each revealing patterns that show up in real business settings.

    These weren’t academic exercises. Each game surfaced dynamics like:

    • How mistrust sabotages collaboration (Prisoner’s Dilemma)
    • How brinkmanship plays out (Game of Chicken)
    • Why shared success often requires shared risk (Stag Hunt)
    • When fairness trumps logic (Ultimatum Game)

    But bear in mind:

    These models are archetypes of discrete, non-cooperative, often one-shot scenarios — simplified models that isolate certain dynamics for clarity. They don’t capture the full complexity of real-world negotiations.

    In B2B, however:

    • Negotiations are rarely one-and-done. They evolve over time.
    • Many outcomes are interdependent
    • Cooperation is often key, even amid competition.

    Most importantly, you’re not just choosing from a fixed set of moves. You can shape the playing field itself. Often, that’s where the real leverage lies.

    While game theory is a helpful lens, it’s not a full map.

    What matters more is practical experience in navigating ambiguity, aligning internal players, and influencing the other side’s perception of the game.

    That’s where we come in. At Crowlight Partners, we help clients:

    ✅ Recognize the game they’re in

    ✅ Understand what’s driving the other side

    ✅ And create conditions for better outcomes — by design, not by happenstance

    Because in B2B negotiations, success isn’t about playing harder. It’s about playing your cards right.

    📌 If you missed any post or want to revisit a particular game, we’ve linked them here:

    Game Practice: When ‘Game Theory’ Gets Real

    #1 The Prisoner’s Dilemma

    #2 Game of Chicken

    #3 The Stag Hunt

    #4 The Ultimatum Game

    #5 Trust

    #6 The Battle of the Sexes

    Or feel free to reach out for a conversation.

    #Negotiation #GameTheory #Strategy #B2B #Leadership #CrowlightPartners #CreatingSharedSuccess

  • Game Practice #6: The Battle of the Sexes

    Game Practice #6: The Battle of the Sexes

    In this classic game theory scenario, a couple wants to spend the evening together. One prefers the ballet, the other a prize fight. But they both prefer going to either together than attend their favorite event alone.

    It’s less about getting your way—it’s about getting aligned.

    In the B2B context, such coordination problems are common in strategic decision-making where goals might not differ but timing, format, or approach are misaligned:

    • Technology integration: Both supplier and client have competing solutions—but integration only works if both sides align. Each prefers their own, but either is better than no deal.
    • Partnership strategy: In a strategic alliance, one partner wants fast expansion, the other values stability and control. If they can’t agree, the venture risks stalling.
    • Platform design/standard-setting: Two firms want to set an industry standard—but each favors their own. Without agreement, interoperability fails and both lose market traction.
    • Inside a large company, two departments need to align on a joint proposal to secure internal funding, but each pushes their preferred use case. If they can’t align, the budget falls through.

    In each of these cases, the parties must align on ONE option—even if it’s not their favorite—or both lose.

    The Strategic Takeaway?

    In this Game, the real challenge isn’t competition—it’s alignment. In B2B negotiations, success comes from recognizing when you’re in a coordination game rather than a zero-sum battle, then implementing mechanisms that ensure both parties end up at the same “event.”

    How to Respond Effectively

    Create a Coordination Mechanism
    A coin toss as a tie-breaker? Not quite B2B best practice. But joint pilots, third-party assessments, or pre-agreed decision criteria can depersonalize the choice and prevent deadlock.

    Alternate the Advantage
    Consider rotating who gets their preference across different decisions or time periods. When preferences clash, taking turns preserves a sense of fairness in ongoing relationships.

    Communicate early—and Listen
    Be explicit about your priorities, constraints, and flexibility—and probe theirs. Where open dialogue isn’t possible, draw on market intelligence and behavior patterns to infer what matters to them. That’s how you uncover creative trade-offs.

    Signal Intent and Flexibility—and Invite Alignment
    Show that you’re moving toward convergence. Frame proposals around shared outcomes. Even without direct coordination, your opening moves can send signals about your intent, inviting the other to tune into an emerging focal point.

    Design Creative Solutions
    Blend both preferences when possible. Phased implementations, performance-based models, or joint innovation initiatives can unlock value—even when starting positions diverge.

    If you’re in a coordination game, stop playing it like a tug-of-war.

    Find the rhythm that gets you to the same place—together.