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  • Book Spotlight: Influencing with Integrity (Genie Laborde)

    Book Spotlight: Influencing with Integrity (Genie Laborde)

    Can you influence effectively without manipulation? Absolutely.

    In her classic “Influencing with Integrity,” Genie Laborde provides powerful yet ethical techniques to shape outcomes and build relationships authentically.

    Key insights:

    Rapport is the Starting Point

    Effective influence begins with connection. Align your communication style with the other person’s sensory language (visual, auditory, kinesthetic) to facilitate mutual trust.

    ✅ Perception and Responsiveness

    The ability to tune into subtle nonverbal signals, such as body language, tone, and pacing, allows you to adjust your style accordingly. This calibrated empathy helps your message land with greater clarity and impact.

    Outcome Orientation + Strategic Flexibility

    Be clear about the outcome you want — and flexible in how you get there. Rather than pushing your agenda, focus on aligning mutual interests. Clearly visualize desired outcomes and communicate these in ways that resonate deeply with your counterpart’s core values.

    Integrity as Your Compass

    Influence grounded in honesty and care builds trust. Long-term success depends on congruent communication that’s guided by a clear intention and respects the others’ autonomy.


    A recommended read for negotiators, leaders, or anyone looking to strengthen their ability to influence positively—without sacrificing ethics.

    Have you experienced someone influencing effectively through genuine integrity?

    #Negotiation #Influence #Leadership #BookSpotlight

  • Game Practice #5: Trust

    Game Practice #5: Trust

    Trust starts when one side gives first. Before there’s a deal. Before there’s a guarantee.

    In the classic Game of Trust, it’s simple:

    • Player A gets an amount X to start.
    • They can send any amount (0-X) to Player B.
    • The amount sent is tripled for Player B.
    • Then B decides how much (if anything) to return to Player A.

    It’s a one-shot game. No prior contract. No second chances. Only trust — or the opportunity to exploit it.

    Notice the dynamic: One player must act first, must GIVE first, without knowing if the other will reciprocate.

    You’ll find the same pattern in real-world B2B negotiations, albeit typically in multiple iterative exchanges. One side extends value with the hope that it will be recognized — and reciprocated. Trust becomes the “invisible currency” that builds relationship capital. And reciprocity (or lack thereof) shapes future interactions. Sometimes the first gift isn’t money — it’s flexibility, effort, a promise, even vulnerability.

    Key takeaways for negotiators:

    ✅ Build trust early — with transparency, reliability, and responsiveness.

    ✅ Honor implicit agreements — not just what’s written in the contract.

    ✅ Small gestures of goodwill can unlock outsized cooperation.

    But be mindful: Not every gift creates a mutual obligation.

    Skilled negotiators recognize when a “gift” is being offered with an implied expectation and consciously choose to:

    • reject it,
    • accept it without being bound,
    • or formalize it by acknowledging its value and explicitly incorporating it into the deal.

    Where have you seen trust multiply value — or destroy it?

    #Negotiation #Trust #GameTheory #B2B #Leadership #CreatingSharedSuccess

  • Game Practice #4: The Ultimatum Game

    Game Practice #4: The Ultimatum Game

    When Fairness Beats Logic

    Imagine you get €100 and must split it with someone else. But there’s a catch — if they reject your offer, neither of you gets anything.

    For example, you offer €10 wanting to keep €90 to yourself, and they say no. Then you get nothing, they get nothing. Game over.

    Welcome to the Ultimatum Game, a classic experiment in behavioral economics. And a powerful lens on real-world negotiation dynamics.

    “But rejecting free money isn’t rational!” I hear you object. Yet the experiment consistently reveals that people don’t just care about the outcome — they care about fairness, respect, and how the offer is made.

    In B2B negotiations, we see this more often than you’d think:

    • One side anchors hard — and the other walks, even if the deal made economic sense.
    • A retailer pushes for steep discounts, but the supplier rejects, incurring short-term financial loss, to avoid setting a harmful precedent for future negotiations
    • A startup declines a lucrative acquisition—not due to price, but because of disrespectful treatment.

    People don’t respond to logic alone. They respond to how they’re treated and whether their needs are acknowledged.

    Key takeaways for B2B negotiators:

    ✅ Fairness is not a soft topic — it’s a strategic variable.

    ✅ Power plays can backfire when they are perceived as unjust.

    ✅ Both the deal structure and the delivery matter: clarity, timing, tone, and process shape how offers are received.

    In short: Negotiation isn’t just math. It’s psychology.

    Ignore perceived fairness, and you might win the numbers on paper — but lose the deal.

    #Negotiation #GameTheory #B2B #Fairness #BehavioralEconomics #Leadership #CreatingSharedSuccess